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In psychological terms, context is almost everything. Much as we like to think that we know how we will act and react in a given situation, without the richness of...
Getting a Book Published: Life is About Moments
The path to writing a book and getting it published is, without doubt, one that winds a lot.
On the way there will be plenty of dead-ends and no shortage of obstacles to circumnavigate.
However, what makes all the anguish worthwhile, are the moments that result from starting out and that are every bit as gratifying as the writer’s block, rejection letters and suggested revisions are aggravating.
I find there are usually three ways to deal with virtually any situation in life: ignore it and carry on regardless, take it badly or use it for inspiration. It’s no coincidence that there really was something to learn from each ‘bad’ moment along the way.
Writer’s block: (which I hardly ever got) you’re trying to hard, go and do something else for a bit, or skip this section for now, it’s obviously not flowing.
Rejection letters: there’s always a lot of luck involved, but are you sure you’ve sent the book to the people who are most likely to have an interest in it?
‘Suggested’ Revisions: the biggest benefit of having a publisher is someone else who cares about your book almost as much as you do looking at it objectively. Every single one of the suggestions my publisher and editor put to me have made the book better. I confess that, once or twice, I had to count to ten, because I thought the book was finished. Fortunately I made it to the last finger on the second hand, started to look at what they were advocating without the frustration from the process and the book was better for it.
And what about those moments that make it all worthwhile? I’m reliably told that having the first copy in your hand is one of them, but I’ve not reached that point yet. Thus far the highlights have been:
And here is that cover….
Consumer.ology
It’s still making me smile…. 🙂
Philip Graves
Hey Phil, Makes me smile just reading about your adventure forward. I am so happy to see your hard work and creation come alive. I look forward to reading it my friend.
R. Lynn Lane
Success Strategies For Life
Hi Phil,
the cover of your forthcoming published book looks simply marvelous. Congratulations on that and reading your road to success has been a delight.
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
Dating Expert and Online Dating Coach